Don’t Say This:
- Why did you choose that major?
- What do you think you’re going to do with that degree?
- Is there a boy/girl?
- You’ve been eating well…
- There aren’t many men/women in that major. It must be hard to date.
- Are you feeling ready for the world?
- Who’s your pastor out there?
- Can you babysit?
- How late did you sleep in?
- Back in my day…
Instead, say this:
- Do you have any plans this summer?
- Are there any home-cooked meals you’ve missed?
- I’m so happy to see you!
- Do you like your major?
- How is college going?
- Have you found any nice places to visit?
- I’m praying for you to be happy, successful, etc.
- How is your family doing?
- Would you like to join us for a game/movie night?
- Has anyone told you about church news/events?